When Your Hope is Gone

Music is a way that God often speaks to my heart and soul.  There is a song by Bebo Norman called, Borrow Mine.
The chorus goes this way:

You can borrow mine
When your hope is gone
You can borrow mine
When you can't go on
Cause the world will not defeat you
When we're side by side
When your faith is hard to find
You can borrow mine

This is what my friends have been doing for me.  They have given me hope and strengthened my faith.  They have texted, prayed, sent messages, and gifts that speak to my heart on days where I am just crying out to God in the pain of waiting to be matched with our daughter.
Less than a week after we had received the news that we wouldn't get the file of a little girl we had been praying for I received this package in the mail from my friend Brooke.

 

 

I wept into this gift.  This tangible reminder of her love, of our commitment to pray, and to know that some day I will wrap her up in this blanket of prayer.

You can borrow mine
When your hope is gone

Another time my friend, Jenn sent me this picture:













This mirror is her prayer mirror and at the top are three names.  Thomas & Kate are her beautiful children, and right next to them is our Yín.  (The endearment we have for our daughter. We have not been matched with a child, we just use this endearment for her so she has a name.)  There have been many, many times where I have been struggling and God has impressed Jenn's heart to reach out in a message or prayer to me and uplift me.

You can borrow mine
When you can't go on

Last Friday another friend, Jennefer, sent me this picture.

It is her "war room" where she does her best praying.  You see that red envelope standing out in the center?  That was from our red envelope fundraiser for Yín.  Jennefer wrote me and said: Just in case you ever feel discouraged that your sweet Yín isn't with you yet and it seems like you will be waiting forever...just know I am waiting with you guys and praying. This is my "war room" where I do my best praying. Right in the middle is my red envelope and red thread and it reminds me of you guys and Yín and I am praying for her safety and her soon home coming too. Hang in there "those who wait on the Lord will renew their strength..."

Cause the world will not defeat you
When we're side by side

This past Sabbath was a very, very hard day.  It marked one year since we sent in our application to our adoption agency.  We've been waiting a year.  Today marks a year since they approved our application.  A year is a long time.  And my arms feel heavy in their emptiness.
But God knew that was coming and set up an event and friends who would hold me up.
My friend Charity felt impressed to pray about a certain concert and woman's ministry event.  She felt impressed to ask me to go with her.  Another friend, Jackie, posted on Facebook that she was going and asked if anyone was interested.  I said, "Maybe."  Then Charity texted me and invited me to go with her.  In the end Charity, Jackie, Krystal, and I all decided to meet up and go.

That night ministered to my soul and these woman were such a blessing to be with.  I praise God for how He impressed Charity to ask me to go and how God never forgets a date.  He didn't forget that it was a year and planned this, I believe, for my heart.

When your faith is hard to find
You can borrow mine

Thank you.  Thank you to all of you who have let me borrow your faith on this long hard journey.  Some of you I have never met in real life, yet you are some of the ones who carry me in your prayer the most closely.  We are blessed beyond measure for you.
I pray that I can be what these prayer warriors have been for me to others.
And I want to encourage you.  You never know how you are strengthening those around you or how you are a profound answer to the prayers of others.
These women didn't know the deep pain I was feeling on the particular days they reached out, but God did and He used them to minister His love.